I know men who have been caught out by one-night stands Think they are always the poor victimised man with some awful harridanДЇorcing her fertility wishes on him. Pregnancy' is something else entirely, and it's not for me.Д¬an want to be fathers accidentally on purpose, too, you know. A happyДЄccident is one thing, but actually to go out and plan an 'unwanted Has any sense, one hopes she will have chosen someone who is going toДeal with the consequences in an adult way.Д«ut I have never wanted to do that. Measures are called for if you want to get pregnant. Where everything is neat and tidy any more. That's why I wouldn't chastise anyone вЂ“ man or woman вЂ“ who sought out parenthood on a totally subconscious level.ДЇew relationships are perfect these days. But if it were to happen, it would not be a disaster. It's like I'm letting nature decide when the time is right.ДЇar, the time has not been right, and thank God for nature's motherly So I have always thought: 'You know what, Have a lot of sex for pleasure these days, but there has to be a I'm not some reckless evangelist for promiscuity. Transmitted diseases, and I know the emotional damage casual sex can Yes, I know about the dangers of sexually Waiting, I think not even that subconsciously, for the happy accident Have long taken an incredibly casual approach to contraception

So, when I'm in a relationship вЂ“ and sometimes even when I'm not вЂ“ I I am nowДЈ9, but I have felt broody on and off throughout my 20s and 30s. That's not to say I'm on a crazed mission to get pregnant. Lost opportunity вЂ“ depending on which way you look at it. Happened, was negative which means, for me, another narrow escape or a Happen, whether I stay with the father or not.' Result were as follows: 'If I am not pregnant, then good. Woman in my late 30s, my exact thoughts while I was waiting for the Three weeks ago, I bought a pregnancy test. She is getting a dan test done and I know it was a once off and she is unlucky to fall pregnant like this but i don't know if I can watch this happen, but i don't know if I can walk away from her either.There's a name for this: 'gotcha' pregnancies and Kate Spicer, the writer in this picture, admits she's played the accidentally-on-purpose game and as a childless woman in her thirties, would be delighted to fall pregnant under any circumstances. I love my wife but is makes me sick to see her pregnant with, most probably, someone else child. But I know deep down she is truly ashamed and says she doesn't know who she is anymore and we are all better off without her etc. She says no one can get past this and our marriage was over before she did this etc etc. There is a small chance it is mine as we had sex a few times in the last month (see the confusion ?) but i highly doubt it as we have had a lot of unprotected sex in the last year or so with no luck. I received a txt later that day saying she stopped her medication and gave up on me and the kids and had a one night stand and now she is pregnant! She has had no contact with this guy since but she cannot abort it. Few days after this I asked her if we could try anything to help our marriage as I thought it was going great and quite confused. I came home from work and she told me it was over but wanted us all to be friends for the kids and share the same house. This is so unlike her as she is a great Mum and loves her boys. 1 month ago I was away with work and was receiving txts saying she resents me and the kids and hates us etc.

She left me but the she did start to come out of her depression and things were going great. They gave her anti psychotic medication and it changed her completely. 6 months ago she had a melt down and tried to commit suicide but luckily didn't follow through. She has had depression since we had our first son (5). My wife has been in a weird depression for around the last 8 months.

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